How
many times do you hear newly-weds say that they remember
little about their wedding day? The average Indian Bride
spends over 12 months on planning every last detail but
the day itself seems to pass by instantly. So what can you
do to ensure that the entire wedding ceremony becomes a
pleasurable lifelong memory?
Apart
from the natural nervous tension that you feel on the morning
of your wedding, you will probably have the added pressure
of a frantic Dad pacing up and down trying to remember everything
and a Mum running round like theirs no tomorrow after your
dad.
You
should be enjoying this day, not drowning in a sea of chaos,
so plan ahead to be sure of a day that is as calm and stress-free
as possible. In the months running up to your big day the
key words are planning and delegation.
Wedding Eve
• Make a timetable for your preparations on the day
and follow it.
• Ensure that you get to bed at a reasonable time
the night before.
On the Morning
• Start your day as calmly and slowly as possible,
allowing yourself time to absorb things as they unfold.
• Take a few moments before the furore begins to relax
and just contemplate the day ahead.
• If there is a particular person who will be around
while you are preparing that you find difficult or stressful,
try to keep your distance. Give them responsibility for
lots of minor jobs. This will let them think that they are
important, but will also keep them out of your hair.
At the Ceremony
• Your big moment has arrived and the rehearsals are
over. You are the star of the show so put on your best performance.
• Even the most serene bride will be feeling at least
a few nerves as the time approaches to join her groom, so
as you enter the wedding venue, take a deep breath. Take
your time to make your entrance. Not only will it allow
you to compose yourself, it will give your guests a chance
to admire you.
• It may sound obvious, but keep breathing. Nerves
can quickly develop into panic when you make that entrance.
• Keep in the back of your mind that everyone there
is wishing you the very best, so feel supported by your
guests.
So relax, enjoy and above all, cherish it.
